Life is so boring when you've got all the time in the world but you don't know what to do with it..... Well, I think I'm liking blogging a lot, at least for the time being.....
Lets talk about self-esteem~
My tips of keeping self-esteem high and mighty~!
1. Be original, don't support piracy. =.="" I mean just be yourslef, don't be like someone else. Well it's good to have a role model, but don't
BE your role model. You'll be like living in someone else's shadow. (
How does it fell like when you've worked your life to make a name, and then someone comes to you and say like, "Hey, you are exactly like *who and who*....) I mean it's like make a name for and by ourself. Savvy?
2. Be happy, and laugh whenever you face difficulties~ Well, it looks hard to make it true. And of course it's hard for me to do it, too. But when you face problems, and you can laugh over it, it makes you a more relaxed and matured person. Many times we are so anxious about this and that until we forget that the simplest solution is right in front of our very eyes. It's good to relax rather than get all messed up when there's a problem.
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FASHION~!Dress according to your taste. Don't let other people tell you what to wear, and never follow any trend unless you feel comfortable with it. Trends are just outlines to follow, but they are nit there to dictate whether you are in the "cool" group or the "cacat" group. To me, people look nice when they are comfortable. No point putting on make-up, heavy blings, oversized glasses whne you're not really comfortable with it. But then, if it's nice, go for it~ Go get a fasion guru to help ya out.
4. Study study study. Knowledge is power, when you have power, you got good self-esteem~ Well, many people, including me (OMG!) find studying very tiring and stressful. But then again, no pain no gain. Study should not be seen as a burden, but something you love. No doubt some schools force their students to take the stream that they do not want............For me, I love Chemistry, not just like or "my favourite subject is....". When you love it, you'll do everything for it. Similar to girlfriends and boyfriends, just that this is study punya analogy la.
5. Friends!!! Get good friends. That three words from the previous sentence takes time. Okay, here's the explanation.
*Firstly, you need to find friends. Okay, that's not difficult unless your jaws weigh like what? 100 tonnes?
*Secondly, nurturing the friendship. Slightly difficult, but yeah, it will get easier.
*Thirdly, get into trouble(by accident). Wait for friends to come and comfort you. Not easy, in fact, please forgive me the vulgarity, bloody difficult.
Friends are not there only when you're happy, but also there when you're sad. If you
HAVE friends who are there for you 24/7, be grateful and appreciate your friends with all your heart, soul, mind, butt, brain...........etc, etc, etc. I literally mean it. Don't take your friends for granted.
6. Your religion~ Go do some devotion or some prayer.... Even when you feel high up in the sky. Praying helps keep the mind sound and realx, and also to tone down your stress when you have one, and also to keep your conscience in thr right state. Besides, repligion plays a role in everyone's life, though sometimes in goes unnoticed.
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FAMILY....! Whenever you have troubles, they are the one's who should and well..... must(?) know your problems first. Talk to them, and also play with your family. Don't spend too much time with friends by going out loitering and God knows what. Do simple activities like sitting down and chat, play a game, watch a TV programme or movie together. You'll never have the kind of fun you have with your friends.
Well, those are the few tips I have and believe in to build my self-esteem~ Just sharing how I can be so gila all the time. Just be yourself, and who knows, you might be a personality someday?
-chickenwing-
This one is me and my "child", Chok Kam~
